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Always consult with your psychotherapist, physician, or psychiatrist first before changing any Tired of bdsm of your treatment regimen. Do not stop your medication or change the dose of your medication without first consulting with your physician. When you use the term "insanity" above, what specifically are you referring to? Tired of bdsm it the affair that has you upset, or is it ov fact that the affair involved bondage and discipline, or is it both?

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Tired of bdsm How you feel about the values that have been transgressed here is at least Married xxx dating Menlo Park important as how you feel about your wife and the possibility of continuing your marriage. Though bondage and discipline or BDSM is considered a deviant sex practice and grounds for a sexual fetish disorder diagnosisI think this is largely a cultural artifact. BDSM is about sexual intensity; it is not about making love.

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The point was sex. I think so long as she continues to see her actions as shameful, dirty and wrong, that will be how long she continues to find them appealing, because, again, it is exciting to be dirty and shameful.

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However, it is an illusion that has great power because it enables her to retain her sense of being good. If she Tired of bdsm come to a place where she can own and integrate her sexuality a little better and not need to act out these fantasies and believe in these illusions in order to feel good about Tired of bdsm sexual desires, she has a good chance to not need the BDSM activity anymore, but until then, I seriously doubt it will lose appeal for her.

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You may be able to salvage love and friendship and still have a broken marriage. There is no going backwards here; no retreat is really possible without the both of you falling hopelessly into a state of denial.

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Neither path is the more correct one one, from my perspective; they are just different. A final word about therapy. It is a good thing that both of you are working with individual therapists at this time. I strongly believe that it may also be helpful for you to work together in a marital therapy process, with different therapists than whom you are working Tired of bdsm individually.

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